BERPANTANG = TEMPOH MEMULIHKAN EMOSI & FIZIKAL, & BUKANNYA BUAT SEMUA KERJA RUMAH.
"Eloklah tu banyak jalan... kena bentan nanti bukan hang saja pantang lama... suami hang sekali kena 'pantang' "
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Ramai ibu ibu yang rasa ada aura 'ultraman' suka buat ni.......
Continue ReadingConfinement = period of restoring emotions & physical, & not doing all homework.
"good to have a lot of ways... you have to be bentan, not only you will be in a long time... your husband has to be ' confinement '"
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Many mothers who think there's an aura ' Ultraman ' like to do this....
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"have to be no problem... I'm used to doing homework even though I'm in abstinence... small matter"
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4 hours later....
Found fainted & the body is cold like...
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That's it bentan (Village Language) & our doctor's language call complications after birth.
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Why is it possible to bentan?
Those of us who have just given birth, have released a lot of blood and are taking out more dirty blood.. Sometimes there are people who are squirts the blood...
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The energy has gone out... but still have to give energy (Mother's milk) for the child... in the middle of the weak, doing homework, done cooking & cleaning the house, plus the hard things.
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That's why old people order, don't walk too much. We are afraid that we will be hit by hard things. The Thumb! Take good care of it. If you hit a hard object, you can lose blood & swoon.
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Due to him, the body will feel cold as it is going to swoon.
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The old man's message has a reason. He said because our body is not fully healed yet.
Not only people who used to order like this, modern doctors say the same thing... don't do heavy work, rest your rest, keep your emotions & eat nutritious food.
Remember, if we are together, we are hard to heal quickly, some take time to heal for months.
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According to the old malay perbidanan practitioner - Siti Aishah, there are 3 types of bentan:
1. Bentan waist - it happened to those who gave birth according to the window (Caesar). For Women who are giving birth this way must be very careful, confinement well. It means, time to wake up, sit down all must slow slow. Don't be gelojoh.
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2. Bentan Peranakan veins (uterus veins) - this is why old people say don't do heavy work & lift weight during abstinence. Sit quietly. When it comes to work, how does it fall? It doesn't only make you have to be in a long time... but the husband also has to be ' abstinence ' too.....
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3. Bentan of veins - this bentan is famous. There's a woman who survived this bentan even though she did a a-z homework. But you have to remember, once you get bentan, it's hard to wake up. The body will be very weak, can be able to veins & body joints. Sometimes the cold is shivering even though the weather is hot.
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📌 how to avoid bentan:
1. Take a lot of rest, don't lift heavy things. Actually we are not encouraged to do it as long as we are weak. Ask Mom or husband to bathe their children. Insyaallah Allah will make it easy. Don't worry =)
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2. Take care of the cleanliness. Often change the pad. 'Steam' miss v using salt & Turmeric.
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3. Take care of eating - this is important.
- never eat bean beans, cabbage & Eggplant.
- confinement to eat bergatal (Clams & shrimp)
- confinement to eat poisonous fish (Stingray, fish, catfish)
- Abstinence & Kissing Mango, Church & Petai. Mothers in confinement can experience a long lasting headache because of this.
- never drink cold water.
(also so.... some 'stubborn' want to try to eat all sorts of things... my answer... try it.. Best of luck =)
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4. Confinement ' with ' husband as long as it's not clean from outrage. (confinement 46 days, 60 days, 100 days, explained in book 9 Bulan10hari)
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Although other people ' curse ' the custom of confinement, let alone the village's way, we as women must really take care of this part if we really want to look beautiful to the old =) Insyaallah...
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Believe me, mother and mother are great, we do good with Allah's blessings, Insyaallah Allah will make it easy. During confinement time we have to breastfeed right... if we are healthy our children will also be full.
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To those who don't want to follow traditional practices, there is no force & there is no obstacle.. =)
May we continue to be a great mother for the trust of Allah - child. =)
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